I figure you are not responsible for this. It's up to H.

Same boat here. WAW has several times chosen OM over her kids. It's up to her to mend and take responsibility. I will not bad mouth W but I also won't defend.

Me: 44, WAW: 49
S: 16, S: 12
M: almost 20 yrs 08/94
1st A: 08/13/04
2nd A confirmed: 4/26/14
Sep 5/15/14