"I told her to go get an apartment."

I thought you just said that you were afraid that would push her to the OM. Make up your mind.

"I did tell her that OM should not be helping her Pay, she agreed."

That's you being controlling again. It doesn't matter if the L agreed. You sounded more like her father than her H.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER