From what I have learned, even if she is giving you a window where you you think you can ask about OM, dont. From your stand point, you have moved on and you do not care what she does or who she does. That is detachment at its finest. It will concern her more that you do not care, than any guilt you might try and lay on her by telling her you know.


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16