You are right. I found evidence of at the minimum an EA. I was cleaning(this is something I have done for along time-even before the blank hit the fan) and found a paper with some notes that stabbed like a knife. I have had a good idea she is having an EA but she has denied it twice. I have not waited for the cock's crow. he has requested things that piss me off. She seems to be waiting for him to be her knight in shining armour, though he talks to other women. She finds any reason right now to be angry with me. I am remaining positive and doing things that need to be done. I think she really does not like how the children interact with me. They are now asking me to snuggle at night. I think they subconsciously know. One has had nightmares that mommy has left daddy. It does hurt me when they say this. I can only validate the feeling and say daddy loves mommy. Not sure what else to do.
