have you considered asking about her father...maybe going with a different approach. I haven't read all your posts because frankly, they are a bit long for me.
But what if you gave the impression to your w that you were happy for that she and her father have reconnected?
would this be a 180?


M48 H50
M21 T26
S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old
PA confirmed 7/2012
H separates 9/2012
H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY
OW still in picture. h filed 10/13