Nobody has ever made me do anything I didn't want to do. Sure I was given choices that made it seem like something they wanted was the better choice. But in the end, I never did anything I didn't want to. Know what I mean?
It's important to understand that we are in control of ourselves. And it's important to understand we cannot control anyone else. That's a key to all of this and its why often, although we are the LBS, we find that we are fine if they come or go (as long as it's not frequently )
Something to ponder as you get your legs under you.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
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