He is not using me, he is not getting the milk or the cow, not putting ice cream on his plate... from me!
Then why hasn't he formalized your business partnership? Why has he been dragging his feet there? He wouldn't be able to get away with that with someone else, who wasn't interested in a R with him, for very long... No cow bought there.
Maybe because until recently, he KNEW you wanted the R, so he USED that to hold you off.
You offer knowing the business, all you contribute with the bookkeeping, clients, etc. And he doesn't have to pony up much of anything...not even a regular paycheck if I understand correctly... what a DEAL for him! Almost free milk...
Plus, you are probably eye-candy for the male clients, AND him. Having a hot assistant/associate feeds some guys' egos, makes them look like alpha males to other guys. Plus, he got direct ego-kibbles from you, until recently...That's quite the scoop of ice cream.
So, how is that taking advantage of the sitch NOT using you???
From this guy's point of view, he is using you, with or without the s3x considerations...
And this guy also thinks you can do MUCH better than xbf.
Last edited by TSquared2; 06/16/1408:39 PM.
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