Hurt and Confussed

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T-boned thanks for your response, I guess you are right..there is still time...funny update...on Saturday during the day we got into an argument...well it was one sided I just kept saying that im not going to fight anymore, she kept saying that I think she is wrong and im a manipulator and liar...etc..etc..which is not true at all...I finally calmly told her that his is why I agree with the divorce and the sooner the better..so I left. On Sunday morning I went by the house to pick up the girls. They gave me my fathers day cards. She sat next to us and was looking at us smiling(she looked sad to me). When I got up from the couch and walked by her she reached out and rubbed my arm and said Happy Fathers Day...I pulled my arm away and said thanks and went out to the back yard. When I came in she was on the couch hugging the girls for a while...I avoided her completely. Then as I was leaving with the girls she followed us to the door and stayed looking at us while I loaded the girls into the car(I decided not to even say bye to her). She then called out my name and said bye...I turned to her and said 'Later" and left...funny how when you are ignoring them they seem to be more nice?? anyways the DB book says that even if you fight it maybe a good thing depending on how they react the next day...which she seemed to be more open to communicating with me, since this worked I guess I will stick to this method for a while...kind of like indifference to her..any thoughts?