Life is continuing on. I got s storage locker for W's things thst she said she wants but hasn't moved. I told her about it and gsve her a key. She protested and simaid that no one should move her things but her and her friends. Yet she hasnt come for those things. I pointed out its been over 7 months and as she stated she' s not coming home. I gold her i have other things i want to put in place of whst she says she tsking.

She isnt giving me a time when she will come get her furniture. I am comfortable with her coming in and spending alot of time her picking over things. She won't give me a list of what she says she wants. She just says almost everything in the house is " mine" which is not true.

I gave her 2 weeks and then said i am going to move items to the locker thst i know are hers from b4 we married. After that..i dont know.

The nieghbors told me she mentioned she doesnt understsnd how things got to where they are now.....ugh.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14