good for you T on the whole stopping and changing focus. That is a good tactic. I hope you enjoyed dinner out. You sound good, that praying every day really really helps me, I still do it, it does give me strength. It still svcks but do whatever works for you to make it through another day and after awhile they start adding up and you start feeling (gasp) happiness!
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs