Hi WH, He may want to just let the house go into foreclosure but that's what lawyers and the legal process is for! I feel for you as my W seems to think that the D process will be so very easy and she will get everything she wants and no one will get hurt. He was the one who wanted to end the M. He had better start realizing that he just can't do whatever he wants and still get what he thinks is right. You are trying that is easy to see. He needs to wake up and understand that he is causing so much trouble and extra expense if he doesn't wake the heck up he will be paying the lawyers and still not getting what he wants! He is going to pay someone. You or the lawyers. If he pays them he probably will still not get all he is wanting as no court in the land will allow him to let the house go into FC and destroy your credit while he lives there are you don't! His lawyer must know that! I feel for you WH! Hang in there!