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[/quote]I'm sorry. My XW has four grown sons mad at her. Not my problem though right?[quote]


No, it isn't.

My mantra for years has been that it isn't my responsibility to fix the R my D's have with their Dad. My responsibility, as ever, is not to damage it.

They feel what they feel.

If it was really that important to her, she would find a way to heal it or die trying.