"The Show Must Go On"

[wishing, hoping]

He doesn't want to give me any cash at all. He will take a major hit on his 401K if he does that, but it's really not my problem. He wants to take on more variable expenses for the kids but I can see him using that against me saying I owe him half that money if I don't watch my paperwork.

He says if he can't refi the house and it doesn't sell, he will just let the house go into foreclosure and screw us both. That is his plan.

Maybe I am better off going to trial? I don't know how I could ever afford it though. H seems to have a sugar momma with a sugar daddy.

WH