We're about 16 months away from 15 years. 15 years is a milestone for alimony calculations. I want to be done in front of that.
Zew, 4 days ago W and I celebrated our 15 yr anniversary. And by 'celebrate' I mean neither one of us acknowledging the day to each other. Like you, I was dead set on 'something' happening before/on that date and had a couple freak out moments (including asking W if I should go ahead and file) leading up to it. I can tell you that the day had passed and I'm right back to working on myself and continuing to be patient.
Just trying to warn you not to get hung up on a set date. You never know how you'll feel tomorrow.
