She says he makes her feel pretty, wanted, sexy...etc. She says I do that too but that with me moving out of the house it's nice to have it validated. She thinks I'm doing it to "win" her back.

yes, I have had sex with her since she has been with him.

I know I need to leave her alone...I've done it and usually within 24 to 48 hours, she's texting me, wanting to see me, etc.

We have a couple's therapy session tonight. I'm hoping the counselor will lay down the ultimatum on the OM. That takes me off the hook.


M 52 W 37
Child: Hers: 2 9/11 Mine: 2 22/9


Bomb: April 2014