Her birthday is coming up in less than two weeks. Just wondering if I should wish her happy birthday via text. She did not wish me happy father's day yesterday but I don't want to play tit for tat. Overall, my sense is that I shouldn't. Thoughts?
It really comes down to what she would expect from you and doing the opposite. Does she expect you to be cold and uncaring? If so I would send a text. Does she expect you to pursue her? If so I wouldn't.
