Are there any role model movies out there? My W once recommended James Dean ("do what he would do"), but the snippets I recall don't reach into being married.
Oh she likes the bad boy types!
I suggest Rhett Butler in Gone with the Wind. You can by-pass the four hours, if you want, and forward to the last scene to catch his last words to Scarlett. That would be the advice for your present W. For any future R, I'd say to watch the entire four hours and study the character of Rhett Butler and how he dealt with Scarlett.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
