"The Show Must Go On"

[wishing, hoping]

So I dont think a deal will be made to finalize this chit by Thursday.

My attorney suggested language to the agreement to protect me that H left out and H refuses to add it. He claims his attorney says it is out of line, but I told him I wanted to see an email from his attorney giving the language she suggests. I have seen nothing yet.

H now says the underwriter will not approve his application to refinance since he received a "gift" to pay off his car. I was under the impression he refinanced the car, but that is not the case. He borrowed money from "someone" to pay off the car and yes, H was dumb enough to disclose that to me. The underwriter wants to see terms in his application on how he is supposed to pay back this "gift" or a letter than this is indeed a "gift" and doesn't need to be paid back. I don't know who would be dumb enough to "gift" H $12,000 for a car, but I guess there is one born every minute.

Right now I am just gonna sit back and wait. H is supposed to get language from his attorney and his refi is on hold. I think he has shot himself in the foot. But of course on Friday he freaked out at me and basically told me it was all my fault. I remained calm and told him, again, if he wanted to have conversations with me I would not accept that behavior from him. He calmed down and went on and on about how I did not understand what sacrifices he has made to keep "us" from going under. Number one, there is no "us" and number two, I do believe that I was one of those sacrifices. Sorry, no sympathy here.

That being said, I need to get off the loan for this house, but if H cannot refi then there is nothing I can do about it. We will have to sell the house which H says will "kill" the kids. Hmmm...he wasn't too concerned about the kids when he kicked their mother out of their home and forced them to spend time with another woman.

I think reality is coming in swiftly for H. As long as I don't get caught it the crossfire I am fine with it. I am just trying to let God handle it. It ain't gonna be a pretty picture though.

WH