You're right, it's not a parenting forum but parenting issues go along with marriage and marital difficulties.

We don't parent with a different brain than we use in our marriage, it's the same brain, loaded with the same stories.

I didn't try to control just my husband, I wanted to control my H, my kids, my coworkers, friends, various people I would come in contact with...I had so much fear of losing control.

Are there similarities in the stories your mind is telling you about your D and those it tells you about H?

Last edited by labug; 06/16/14 02:46 PM.
Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss