Wife's mental illness and hard decision

[labug]

Your Ds are all old enough to know what they feel safe with and who they feel safe with, whether it's your W or a stranger. Maybe asking them, if you haven't already, would give some insight. By asking you show you understand and respect them and are allowing them a safe place to share their fears, if they have any. If they say they don't feel safe you have some other decisions to make.

I'm all for keeping families together but sometimes it has to be done in creative ways.