I think Claire, Thornton, and GeorgiaBelle are on the right track. DB isn't just to get your marriage back -- it's to get you healthier so that your next relationship (whether with H or someone else) is the one you really want. Do you want a marriage where you have to constantly remind your partner that you're around and want to make him happy? Or would you prefer to be chased just enough to know you are valued?

He knows you're out there. He knows he's married to you. He knows that something must be done about that. Now give him some space to figure out what that something will be.

And in the meantime, take some pleasure in making your apartment really comfortable for you!


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.