I would not send a letter. I would just keep any contact you do have with him really, really light and pleasant. Show him you are happy and make him miss you. And, of course, work on being truly happy! Easier said than done, I know. It gets easier. My first few weeks of separation were awful but now I'm gettin in the grove and enjoying a lot of my time w/o H.
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14
