I think that is where the idea of lovingly detach and leaving the way home smooth. You can be dark/NC. But when they contact you and you are pleasant, it gives them a little comfort to make that effort to R if that is what they want. Or so I tell myself...
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
