Being new to an area is a fantastic reason to get out and explore. The side benefit is that you get away from your wife, have time to think and you're less likely to get into those toxic discussions with her... and you'll have something interesting to talk about when she asks.


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014