Also,

Her birthday is coming up in less than two weeks. Just wondering if I should wish her happy birthday via text. She did not wish me happy father's day yesterday but I don't want to play tit for tat. Overall, my sense is that I shouldn't. Thoughts?


Me - 44
Her - 35
S - 6
D - 8
Married - 8
Together - 11
Separated - 5/17/2014
Divorce filed - 6/3/2014