Who is looking after the other children? Maybe It sold be good for him to have them. As for contact do what works, but for you, not him.
I got "lucky" and went into labor on a Wednesday afternoon. The older boys are with their dad from Thursday morning at 7am till Sunday at 11am. But because it was father's day he wanted them all day. So I have not even had to worry about them.
What works for me as far as contact..... hmmmmmm when I fall into "fantasy happy family land" or reality check he is still an a$$ that has shown no remorse/wanting anything different...........
Mentally I know I need to stay away but the hope inside of me doesn't want to.
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction
