"I need to get her and him out my head because thats whats driving my negativity and ruining my marriage."
No. YOU are creating your own negativity and ruining your M. If it's not their friendship it's going to be something else you're going to blame. Man up and start taking responsibility. That's why she doesn't see any change from you.
"He says he has stopped talking to her and so it seems so."
Who cares? In fact, you probably wrecked a pretty good friendship for her. What about the next guy she talks to? Are you going to go ballistic on him as well?
"He says that I shouldnt move out not yet and get the car for her because a car represents freedom."
Sounds like a good idea, but I would put conditions on the car.
"I hear that after the guy truelly moves on and lets go thats when the girl comes back.. I dont know but if your telling me not to move out I guess I wont unless she tells me.. because shes looking to tell me in about a month. I literally have a month to tey and fix things."
Seriously? She will only come back if you're changed. Period. You haven't even done that with all your paranoid texting. I say not to move out because it puts you in a worse condition legally. Based on your track record, I don't think a month is going to prove anything. You have to prove it to yourself you can do it. And start acting it.
She was crying so much yesterday I honestly dont think she would make a decision with me being there. So I really dont kniw mrbond"
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
