Dealing with an ongoing affair

[PeterV2]

Yeah. I hear you. I've stopped saying it.
We spent some time together today with her mum. Her mum's leaving the country this Thursday. W told me today that once her mum is gone she may just disappear for a week or two just to clear her head. She has a friend in Florida she wants to visit. I'm just worried that she'll arrange to meet the OM there, but my imagination could just be getting the better of me.
She is burnt out from the job. She has been working every day and doing the night shifts as well for the past 2 months. She's sleep deprived and not coping too well. I've told her to schedule staff in a couple of times a week to cover the nights so she can sleep but she's reluctant to do that since we have vacancies in the RH such that it's running at a loss until we fill the rooms. She's stressed over that, even though I'm making up the shortfall. She's going to our MC on Tuesday and I'm going Wed. Then Mum leaves Thursday. What happens after that is anyone's guess. We may see the MC together next week. She told me today she's not sure that we can stay together. Although last week or the week before she said she didn't want a divorce. She is still angry at me for not taking the time to spend with her when she had been asking for the past 3 years. She gave of herself to make me happy at the expense of not taking care of her own happiness. I never denied her anything, but we were always very busy and she said she kept doing busy stuff with me side by side so she could spend time with me. But she just wanted to take time off, relax and enjoy life for a change, but my agenda was always too full. I told her my schedule is now a lot more open, that I'm fully aware of what lead to the current situation and have taken steps to never repeat that pattern of behavior. She's not sure that my changes will last.