You sound like you are doing well and have a fun summer planned. They do have a way of making us sound like a 3rd world dictator don't they ?:).
Yes, your M had issues. Everyone's does. But I'm glad you figured out it's him not you. You have made changes that make you a better person and that's great. Your h may or may not make changes. Only time will tell on that.
Keep up all the good work!
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer