Just dropping by to mention 2 things that resonate with me about this post: 1. My H and his EA referred to me as IP(ice princess) in their texts as an inside joke. It ceased being funny when I busted him on it and he has apologized multiple times since. However, as much as it stung me to know that (and how stupidly immature it was), I realized I didn't want to be that way. He was right, and I have been actively working on being more affectionate with everyone in my life through IC. Throughout this whole thing, I can honestly say I have become a better mother, daughter and friend as a result. 2. There's a "thing" on the social media sites called 100 Days of Happy. It challenges you to post something every day that is a positive in your life. It really does help your PMA. If you shoot over and read my thread update, yesterday was the lowest point of my life, but I was still able to post my Happy Day entry about how I have fantastic friends (no, I am not someone who airs dirty laundry online so the web has no idea WHY my friends were so fabulous yesterday).
Just my .02
Hang in there!
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5