Friendship amongst us four is damaged, you're right. What's been going on is that I am left out of the circle, but hold the evidence to break it all up. Om and my w of course wants to keep the harmony and friendship with OM wife. And I am afraid that exposing it to her will also ruin my chance of DB.
Nope. It will have the opposite effect. Yes, DBing is counterinituitive. You think by exposing the A to the OM's W that your DBing will be shot. Not the case at all. You are informing OM's W so she is aware of what's truly happening and allow her the opportunity to work on their marriage. It also gives you the same opportunity.
Affairs thrive on secrecy. When you turn up a rock in the ground, you see all the crawlies running around trying to get back into darkness. Trust me...when the exposure happens, your W and OM will be very, very mad and try to put the affair back into the darkness. Trouble with that plan is that it is ALREADY exposed.
Originally Posted By: cq1
A is over per they say. I believe it but do t trust it. W goes over and hangs out with OM wife and I know for sure that the OM will be there at times. And yes, I feel extremely uncomfortable with it because I don't trust them completely.
Trust your own gut instinct for they're almost always right. Whatcha gonna do about exposing the affair? The choice is up to you. I've read that Starsky and Bond exposed their WAW's affair and they are now reconciled with their wives. It can be done and it has been done quite successfully.
