Thank you, I slightly slipped on "saving him" when he asked for a favor. He is taking the twins to a picnic for father's day and wanted to borrow my van as his jeep is filled with his clothes and he didn't want to have to tell his family (he told his mom but no one else) that she kicked him out.

I agreed (I am just sitting at the hospital anyway).......

Second guessing myself that I should have said no and made him face up to his family.

Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction