W called twice this afternoon. First time was to talk about blinds for the kids room. Told her I didn't have the money in my new account and don't have a charge card anymore. She all but insisted on charging it on her account. I said no. Next call was after a text saying she had to change the password on my car insurance. She knew before and I restated this morning that I was taking care of this and she could pay me for her portion. The kicker is that she started the conversation with "so what are you doing". She thinks I just want to chat. Then she hit me with the part about closing the joint bank acount that I walked away from. All this will do is cost more money that she could be putting toward her part of the debt. For some reason this hurt me.

I just sent her a text saying "aside from talking about the boys' needs, as long as you are seeing the other guy, I do not want to talk with you. Today I let my guard down and once again you put me in a place I didn't need to be.

Last edited by Dad+2; 06/15/14 09:32 PM.

Me: 44, WAW: 49
S: 16, S: 12
M: almost 20 yrs 08/94
1st A: 08/13/04
2nd A confirmed: 4/26/14
Sep 5/15/14