H txtd me a picture of him and the kids on a ferry. I asked him what they were doing and he replied that they were doing a day trip to an island the two of us have visited many times. Then he txtd "thinking of you and the times we have been here :-)" I txtd "I always loved doing the loop there walk with u" Then he txtd "we should take a day off work together and come here". This is significant for a couple of reasons, not only the obvious that he wants to spend a whole day together but also that he wants to take a day off work together. That is something he did a few times to spend time with OW, which he knows hurt me very deeply.

Man, I know this is mindreading but I swear he is trying SO hard to recapture his feelings for me. It's sweet but simultaneously sad, thinking about all that we so foolishly squandered and lost. Praying that he rediscovers what I hope he's looking for..


M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14