The one thing that has changed is my level of what and who I am, and what I did and why. I realize what I did and why, and feel terrible, not for W leaving, but for how she feels. I hurt the W more than I ever imagined, and it's killing me. Now I need to focus on me, and letting go even more. I found out what I want as far as values and morals, and what I was doing wasn't it. And yes I know I drove her to OM, my part was just as much as hers. I have been trying to out myself in her shoes on this, and it has helped to see her POV. I still have a long way to go though.
