The Dr showed me lots of cat scan images and then gave me a few ideas. He at least was the first to do this. He has some tests set up which I am sure will have more to follow.
My girls have always tended to flea in fear than to confront it. When they were little the neighbors got a small puppy. The girls saw it and ran for the house and refused to go out. We went and got a puppy then and they learned to gt over that fear and love that dog to this day. We have faced other fears with them and found for them the best solution was to create the situation where they could face and conquer their fears. I am hoping this will be the same situation. My oldest has said to me her mom seems sad and has mentioned that she needs to find something to do now that she does not have her daughters with her. My hope is that having them get their rooms in order down there and then staying will help the fears as well as their mothers sadness. I believe the girls feel safe. I think they are just afraid to do the wrong thing and cause their mother to try again. I keep reassuring them that they were not the cause and that they need to treat their mother in a regular fashion and not be afraid.
Twisting on Life's Rope Me53 W53 M20 D21 D19 D16 BD 2-2013 D final 1-2015 _________________________ "Dream about tomorrow, Live for today, Learn from yesterday"
