Thanks Twin. I don't spend time with them to talk about W. I didn't spend much time with them before but thats been true for pretty much all of my family. I've always been one of those guys that just doesn't take the time unless someone else initiates spending time or setting up to do things. Since BD though things have just changed, between me and her family as well as mine. I talk to my parents regularly and hang out with several family members on an ongoing basis. I like the change in me that makes me feel like I'm there for others now instead of just....there when I have to be. I don't expect it to earn points. It will probably continue to irritate her but I don't think that matters. Whatever her problem is with me spending time with them is her problem. Family is not conditional and I won't just write anyone off for another persons choices or actions.


M: 43 W: 43
Married 6 yrs.
T: 7 yrs.
Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10