Bunches, if you have read my threads I make mistreated all the time but here it's my advice. As long as you are not spending time with her family to try and get info/talk them into "reasoning with her" or something like that I don't see a problem with it. If you would hang out with these people just for who they are then I say go for it and ignore W. It's none of her business
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction