Yea, you will hear a lot here that time is your friend. While that may be true, time will also tick very slowly, especially in the beginning. As much as we want to just fix this and get it over with it just does not happen that way. You will have to have more patience than you ever thought you had in you, and then some.
When you get down like it seems you are now, go find some older threads on this forum. Find the ones that are 6 months old or older. Then read them. Then find another and do the same. Keep doing this. You will get an great insight as to what is to come, as well as what you may be faced with. You will also gain a lot of hope as you read success stories. Not all of them are, but focus on the ones that are, and try and emulate what went right for them. If nothing else, it will occupy your time in probably the most productive way you can working towards your goal of getting your W back.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
