This man would rather sleep on a twin bed in his friends basement with none of his belongings than to try to work things out at home. He was THAT miserable.
Be careful and do not mind read. Just because he does not want to stay in the same house does not mean that somewhere inside he isnt struggling. Believe none of what you hear and only half of what you see. My wife is the WAW and I would do anything to get her back. But it was me who pushed for the S. I could not handle being in the same house with her anymore, it was too toxic. Being apart for me allowed me to get my head in a better place, and avoid the reality of what was in front of me. Maybe your H has to be away to avoid the reality of what he is doing. Or maybe something else.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
