How so? And who took advantage of her the other times? The problem was there before he ever entered the picture. However, now that he's in your M, it compounds the problem. What has been decided about the foursome friendship? What has been decided about the A?
Let me answer your questions here.
Om is a mutual friend. I looked up to him and so did w. he was the one I first consoles when my wife mentioned D. I Consoled with him many times before I found out about the A. He always said to me I will help get you two back together again the best he can. He took advantage of her because he knew how vulnerable she was in this fragile state of M.
There were no other times.
Friendship amongst he and I are no more. But amongst them three are still intact.
A is over per they say. I believe it but do t trust it. W goes over and hangs out with OM wife and I know for sure that the OM will be there at times. And yes, I feel extremely uncomfortable with it because I don't trust them completely. Drives me to the edge of anger. But I hold it in. W gives me no remorse. Why is this so Sandi? And she does not help in anyway to ease my emotions. I know I know, "not in love with me". Lastly, she's still asking me for time and space and has not brought up the D. But I tell you, her actions make ME think of wanting a D. But I love her...too much.
