Hi all - "was never in love"

[pilot]

Asking whether the friend that invited me was still single, remarking on how pretty she is, asking who else is going to be there.

That said, she may really be keen to see me move on, and hoping I have a tryst with someone!

Sorry you are going through all of this. As it was pointed out to me, you might want to avoid any situation where you find yourself involved in a potential "fling" with another person. I invited an ex gf to my 3 year olds birthday party knowing my wife would be there. Yea, it might get your W thinking...but in the end it is not going to benefit you. So in the future I will just avoid any reference to another woman I am associating with, even if only friends. Better to let them just wonder.

Best of luck to you