Our anniversary was Thursday. He told me today he is not coming home and never intended to. I am done. His exact words when I asked him why: "I don't want any responsibilities right now". Wow.
I am going to make an appointment with an attorney this week to see what my options are: my H convinced me to quit my job and go back to school right before he left. I am an unemployed single parent and completely dependent on him for money. I want to find out from the attorney if he would be obligated to pay support for me- he has been paying without much complaining at all, but I need to know my options.
I don't want to file, but if it's the best thing to protect myself and the best thing financially, then I will.
I'm okay emotionally- I most certainly cried after he left. But right now I am mostly embarrassed. This is my second marriage. How could I have agreed to marry someone who would do this to another human being? Was I just meant to be alone?
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5
