at night I get a text from her that says "Thank you so much for the flowers and card, it really means a lot to me!!". So I took it as a small step forward, like she is thanking me. But today I see in the bank account that she paid another 500 bucks to her lawyers trust...im assuming she is still full steam ahead on the divorce, ...
Would you have received the "Thanks so much ..it really means alot to me" if you didnt give her the cards and flowers? Your LRT seems to be working great! Thats why your coming out of being dark was SO effective and perfectly timed. Don't mind read. Who knows if she paid the lawyers before the lawyer or after the gesture? what matters is she has this positive memory of you that will fill up her love bank. Thats why it just messes with us when we know our S bank, phone bill activity. I know it cant be helped sometime but I check my bank account only when necessary...to keep my brain out of the swirl. Keep up the good work with LRT! Its working and if you can powerfully do a like gesture , not frequently but at the right time it will bear fruit over time. Let patience do its work. You are doing it man.
Me 42 W:35 M: 14yrs T:15yrs D: 8yrs D:6yrs S:3yrs BD: "I want a D"09/03/14 Sep: 30/06/14
Don't give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
