Ok need the advice of the vets here...I have been LRTing her for quit a while, seems like there is no response. Yesterday I think I screwed up, she called me to tell me that she finally got the job promotion she has been waiting for for almost 5 years, I congratulated her and then left her flowers and a card at the house while she was at work...later on at night I get a text from her that says "Thank you so much for the flowers and card, it really means a lot to me!!". So I took it as a small step forward, like she is thanking me. But today I see in the bank account that she paid another 500 bucks to her lawyers trust...im assuming she is still full steam ahead on the divorce, not sure about what to do...im going to continue LRTing which is making me feel better about myself, but when I think about her spending almost 4 grand to divorce me it pissess me off that after 15 years!!! also all her friends at work keep telling her she deserves to be happy and all that bull...urghhh please vets chime in on this, would love your thoughts.
Me: 42 W: 39 D: 2 age 6 and 9 D-Day: Dec 29 13 Seperated: 3/20/14 Mediation retainer : 5/20/14 She filed: 06/25/14