Ahhhhh another venting. So since the graduation Thursday kids haven't really spoken to him, just respond to texts at the end of the day.
My oldest son is 19 and very level headed he has Aspergers. Even he is having a hard time with this. This AM H contacted him a spend asked if he wanted to go shopping and hang out at his new place. Son said no, " he was out yesterday and that was enough social interaction". Which is common for him.
Then my son explained to me, that's not really lying cause it's true, but he doesn't want to socialize with his dad, right now.
He also texted my daughter said she and her boyfriend could come over and he would grill. Again H is trying to be nice but my dd is a vegetarian for 4 years!!! Of course I make excuses for him tell dd maybe he meant girl for her boyfriend or grill some vegetables etc.
Then the dd gets mad at me for making excuses. I truly feel caught. The kids think I am too nice, and the H thinks I am turning the kids against him. It's not me though he is doing it to himself.
Just need to vent I don't really have anyone to talk to.
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