Me: confusing? No... I know what I want I am clear. It is you who is all over the place
Me: Are you confused about our Wednesday evening kiss, talks, etc?
Xbf: I do want to enjoy nice times with you... thats why I invited you to family party, and want to have some fun on the seadoo, patio, etc. I know I need to work on myself. My priority is stabilizing the location for our business. I would like to buy it and make it a "social place" as well as work for us.
Me: does "fun" to you equal sex?
Xbf: Lets not discuss that topic anymore. It is hard on me.
Me: I understand and am very sorry. I was not leading you on. I want it too.
Xbf: I enjoyed our Wednesday kiss/etc. it made me feel attractive again. And if I was ever questioning my attraction to you, It is very clear.
Me: There is more to me than sex. I am loveable, caring & fun. I am the whole package. Sex is only part of what I want.
Xbf: Well thats all I want right now, for the most part.
Me: ok then & walked away.
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THE VIEW FROM MY BACKSIDE:
If ever I need to hear what I just heard ITS NOW... I heard it!!!
He is selfish, confused, commitment issues, doesn't know what he wants, and is only wanting sex from me.
I am insulted & wanted to text him last night to say so... but, I didn't. Its not like it would matter anyway.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
