Having the standard angst over how to handle fathers day. I think i will ask theboys to sign a card i will buy and add some training gels. H knows i have little money. Its a busy weekend with out of town lacrosse and it would be easy to just forget about it. But i believe its good for the kids to do these regular celebrations at least on a small scale, even when youre mad.
On another note, just recording a funny. I emailed h to clarify because he said he'd pay for s's car insurance and i wondered if he had expectations that i or S should contribute. His response was no but if i want to give h money toward it as S's christmas andbirthday presents i can. (Ummm, i dont think thats a very nice gift to S, next dec/jan when those events occur.) i will decline that particular invitation and give s what i decide for his birthday and christmas.
Busy times. I am packing files in my office, selling stuff on craigslist, getting painters and movers lined up. Have to vacate the office by june 30. Next week back to searching for a job. I have enrolled as a dog walker. Its funny to consider a job i get paid less than i pay my kid to mow our lawn, but its flexible and a passion of mine, and every little bit helps.
I am also stepping around my separation stuff out on my desk at home. Need to carve some time out for that. Baby steps.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
