Yes, that is great. People sometimes go ahead and try to "help" by sticking up for you or shaming wah but you cant control them, asking them not to, and/or not to tell you all about it, is about the best you can do.


Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.