Yes, that is great. People sometimes go ahead and try to "help" by sticking up for you or shaming wah but you cant control them, asking them not to, and/or not to tell you all about it, is about the best you can do.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
Oh by the way I did call H's bluff last night about him taking the boys to BMX - I told him we had plans but that I could pick them up on my way if he wanted to take them for a bit. It turned into oh I don't even think it will be open I'll take the another time.
My suspicions were right - he's just trying to make me look unwilling
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
